Category: Commentary

Comparing a First and Second Pregnancy

First and second pregnancies can be very different. For starters, your first pregnancy is a constant focus. You take time to take maternity photos and can tell people exactly how far along you are. You think about it often and avoid things like caffeine. Also, you might find yourself in...

I Have a Least Favorite Baby Stage

Babies go through many different phases in their development. They start at a very basic level where they need only the simplest of things. Then they become alert and move on to being able to sit up and then to crawling. The author states the crawling phase is her least...

Creating our own traditions

Family traditions become something special because of the memories associated with them. Some are religious, like lighting special candles or serving ethnic foods symbolic of your faith. Others are just generic fun. Anything you do for a holiday can become a tradition. If you have become a step-parent recently and...

My December baby was my best Christmas present, ever

December is a traditionally special and romantic month, and obviously includes Christmas. Although a month renowned for high levels of expenditure, December is also one of the most celebratory and enjoyable for both children and adults alike. Quite aside from its spiritual and religious implications, December also sees the ritual...

Ugh, hipster dads want be called “papa”

No one wants to die, and if we can avoid it by forcing kids to call us “Nona” instead of “grandma” or “Pretty Dancer” instead of “Aunt Aimée,” we will certainly try. Now even men are attempting to escape the specter of aging via linguistics, firmly insisting to their toddlers,...

According to science, mothers are unhappy

Does being an intense mother make women unhappy? Women who believe in intensive parenting — i.e., that women are better parents than men, that mothering should be child-centered, and that children should be considered sacred and are fulfilling to parents — are more likely to have negative mental health outcomes,...